I want to be happy.
I want to love myself completely.
I want control of my life back.
I want to internalize the extent of the damage I've done to my body.
I want my anorexic mind to release me of it's peril.
I want to accept the feeling of loneliness. The duplicitous balance of both complete extroversion and introversion can live harmoniously.
I want to learn to do things that make me happy.
I want to learn those things that DO make me happy.
I want to learn to lean on those who love me.
I want to learn to find confidence in the acceptance of my insecurities.
I want to stop searching for external validation from others and things.
I want to be able to run again.
I want to invest more in my friends and less in my romantic relationship with my ED.
I want to think of others as much as I consume myself with MYSELF.
I want to always be honest with myself.
I want to stop being scared and take down my walls.
I want to learn to let myself fall in love.
I want to take pride and invest in my work.
I want to learn balance between being in love with the idea of love and reality.
I want everyone to know how much I love them even when I don’t know how to show it.
I want to stop beating myself up about everything.
I want to learn to put others before myself more frequently.
I want to get closer to God. I want to get closer to God. I want to et closer to God.
I want to carry what I hear on Sunday past the doors of the church.
I want to not be so good at lying.
I want peace and sanity in my mind.
I want to make people feel as special as they make me feel.
I want to be closer to my non-immediate family.
I want to feel comfortable in my skin even if I am ten pounds heavier.
I want to forgive myself for my divorce and all my mistakes.
I want to internalize the fact that EVERYONE has made mistakes.
I want to start to learn more from them and stop repeating them.
I want to always be surrounded by those I love.
I want to have the ability to see something that looks good and just indulge.
I want to let go of the guilt I harbor for everything that I do.
I want to remember to pray and call at least one friend every day the same way I remember to brush my teeth.
I want people to think of me as the natural “go to” when they need comfort, love, and support.
I want to always just let go and be myself – no matter the situation.
I want to learn to always have fun….I AM a lot of fun!
I want to learn to own and love every facet of my being and personality.
I want to stop caring what others think.
I want to never again tweak myself to be what I think another wants.
I want to allow myself to be lazy sometimes.
I want to get closer to understanding myself and my life.
I want to stop trying to be someone that others like and just like myself.
I want to stop comparing myself to other women.
I want to stop looking to men for personal validation.
I want to believe that people love me for who I am, not what I look like.
I want to be better at cleaning my house and stop trying to hide the fact that I’m not.
I want to accept myself if I don’t ever get better at it.
I want to stop pretending to be someone I think is desirable to others.
I want to stop feeling like I need to make the bed everyday.
I want to stop obsessing in general.
I want to start drinking more water AND more beer.
I want to decrease the time I feel like I need to spend at the gym and increase the time I dedicate to spending with friends.
I want to cut myself some SLACK!
I want to listen to more music and watch less television.
I want to take more pictures and not care how I look in them.
I want to learn to let myself TRULY FEEL.
I want to stop feeling like I need to put on such a stoic front.
I want to give myself permission.
I want to face reality and the responsibilities of life a little better.
I want to stop feeling so accountable.
I want to stop being so idealistic so I stop always feeling so let down and discouraged.
I want to let go of the concept of perfection.
I want to eat more ice cream.
I want to learn to slow down and be patient.
I want to love my body.
I want to own my own life.
I want to stop settling.
I want to learn to settle a little more.
I want to finally admit that honesty with myself and others is always feels better in the end.
I want to admit that I have a problem and be ok with getting help.
I want to use this list to take a second stab at my life.
I want to forgive myself if I forget half of the things on this list in that process.
I want to stop perfecting this list....the fact that I have revisited it so many times is so indicative of my perfectionist nature.